There is only one way to love God, and that is by following His teaching thru Christ:
"A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another."
Anything other than loving one another as God loves us thru Christ is bullshit (Jesus' words, not mine). Love never seeks to harm, love always seeks to help and, if help is rejected, is prepared to help if the person changes their mind.
Past that, we are to mind our own business, live as peaceably as possible, and look out for those in need. Period. End of discussion. That's it. Everything else is commentary; fun to discuss but pointless without love.